I have realized that after ten years of marriage and family I am still inexperienced in my life. This lack of knowledge, visible recordings, skill, and practice at many aspects are not necessary things that I can ever change. Lets face it, each day that we wake up we are inexperience at that day. So each day I become more experience with children, my wife, my children, the adamant and the inadamant. The rest of this blog will be an over view of the things that I can either remember or care to putting in as things I am no longer inexperienced with.
These past weeks I realized a word that I call "Networking" is no longer a term I dubbed as butt kissing. When I worked in the manufacturing industry if you were good at networking that meant if someone in management turned to fast you may need a neck brace. Working at Wal-Mart I have realized that I need a network of people to actually get my job done and ensure I have a promising future. With this experience in realization of what it means to "Network" I now know how inexperienced I am at being more sociable. I admit that I am open to new ideas, new people, and wiliness to meet people however I have always been a little too selective at allowing those to stay entered into my world. So with a new year coming right around the corner I resolute to meeting more people and be more open to inviting them into my life. I'll update this as time comes.
My kids. Well, my kids never fail to show me something new each day. Marcus and Natalie have shown me the most lately with the introduction of basketball season. In the past Marcus was the only child that played sports, with Natalie introducing herself into this world I have final realized why I get funny looks at from other parents when they see my whole family (Six of us) walking into the gym for practice. Long story short we only have two days of the week with no basketball. One day is on a Tuesday , the other Sunday. The small time the King and Queen of this house had are almost all but gone. What is left means we have to sacrifice our sleep to enjoy it. But this past Saturday I found some joy in all of this. The ability for my wife and I to sit together in the stands at two basketball games and yell together for either encouragement or coaching. We spent two hours together stretching our diaphragm's and giving high fives to the kids, all while feeding a baby and keeping the attention of a 2 year old. I can now say I am more experience at enjoying the time I give to others.
Random inexperience question of the blog:
If I am arguing with myself, does my wife still win?
About Me
- Dadius Maximus
- All of the below (Not in any order, just depends on the time of day): Husband, Father, Friend, Companion, and Enforcer(when needed).
Of course she does. She is a woman she is always right. :) Love Ya Babe!
ReplyDeletewell that depends on whether or not you're talking to yourself at the same time you're arguing with yourself. if you audibly argue with yourself then she wins...if the argument is in your head and nobody is there to hear it then you win - or nobody wins - or the argument never even happened - or i'm just putting some weird nihilistic point on it.
ReplyDeletejust go with yes.